Dear Abby: Is it wrong of me to be stashing away money so I can leave?

DEAR ABBY I m and five years into my second marriage Related Articles Dear Abby Do I have to change my eating habits when I m in inhabitants Dear Abby My mom wants me to train my toddler in certain tasks It s not going to happen Dear Abby Her air freshener habit has led to an unexpected trouble Dear Abby What I meant to be a compliment led to a big rift with my son s wife Dear Abby I don t want to butt in but yoga isn t going to fix her predicament We lived together a little over a year before getting married At that point I had spent seven years as a caregiver for my parents We moved to Kentucky from Florida because his mom needed us close but since the move he has become someone I hardly know We in the end got his severe depression under control but he has become petty and vindictive He s kind of a bully He watches nothing but conspiracy theory videos on YouTube I don t know what to do He wasn t that way when we dated I need to rebuild my credit after the last sparse years and save money I m putting most of of my paycheck into a separate account and I was planning on leaving in a couple of years but it has gotten a little better since he s on the right meds Still it is really hard to move past these last inadequate horrible years He expects me to take care of his mom who abandoned him as a child I don t want to I really dislike her Am I wrong to still be thinking of leaving STUCK NOWHERE DEAR STUCK Your husband may have married you so he d have someone to take care of his mother You paid your dues for seven years with your own parents Remind your husband that you moved to Kentucky so he not you could take care of his mom and you will not allow him to foist her off on you Keep salting your money away and when you have enough to make a new start decide then whether you want to move on DEAR ABBY I m a -something gay male who was seeing a guy in his s who lives a couple hours away For almost two months we spoke nearly every day and saw each other as time allowed I thought we had great chemistry and I held him in high regard He even introduced me to your column Out of nowhere he s saying he feels only friendship for me and that we aren t in the same place emotionally It s a total gut punch I feel like I did or stated something wrong but I don t know what it is so I m blaming myself I replay all our conversations and dates in my head searching for where I went wrong Related Articles Asking Eric I think their wedding plan is disrespectful to my mother Dear Abby Do I have to change my eating habits when I m in population Asking Eric The mother was flustered by a seemingly simple question Harriette Cole I d go out with him if it weren t for this woman s immature meddling Miss Manners I get vulnerable in front of a man and then this happens How do I break this cycle And how can I allow myself to trust other men especially older men when I feel so burned by my interaction with Mr Fifties TWENTY-SOMETHING IN TENNESSEE DEAR TWENTY-SOMETHING Please stop being so hard on yourself Something surely happened Maybe the chemistry between the two of you wasn t as strong as you thought it was It s also accomplishable that he met someone and didn t have the courage to be honest about it Whatever his reason you have no choice but to accept that the two of you weren t in the same place emotionally It s time to move on without assuming that all older men are the same Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren also known as Jeanne Phillips and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips Contact Dear Abby at www DearAbby com or P O Box Los Angeles CA